Is It Ever OK to Seek Sex Outside of a Relationship? Insights from WE TV’s Sex Box
As Seen on WE’s Sex Box: Seeking Sex Outside of Marriage
The question of whether it’s ever acceptable to seek sex outside of a relationship can spark strong emotions and opinions. WE TV’s Sex Box explored this controversial topic as two couples faced challenges around communicating their sexual needs, both within and outside of their relationships. While every couple’s dynamic differs, open communication about desires and boundaries is vital to navigating such situations.
In a recent article from SheKnows.com titled “When It’s Actually OK to Seek Sex Outside Your Marriage,” Catherine Connelly examined this issue and provided valuable insights on how couples can address it openly. I was quoted in the article to share my professional perspective on the topic.
Is Seeking Sex Outside a Relationship Always Cheating?
As I explained in the article, “Sex outside of the relationship is only cheating when it is done without the partner’s consent. It can be done if openly discussed and boundaries are established.” The critical factor is communication. When both partners are fully aware and in agreement, seeking sex outside the relationship becomes a consensual decision rather than a betrayal.
How Fantasies Can Open Communication
One of the most common challenges couples face when it comes to sexual issues is a lack of open communication. Fantasies can play a crucial role in helping partners express their desires and feelings non-judgmentally. “It is often through fantasies that couples learn to open up sexually, find the language to articulate their feelings, heal sexual shame, and learn how to explore areas of their sexuality together that need improvement,” I shared in the article.
Fantasies allow couples to explore different aspects of their sexuality, helping them identify what excites them and how they can incorporate those desires into their relationship. This process not only improves sexual communication but can also enhance overall intimacy.
The Importance of Establishing Boundaries
If a couple decides to explore sex outside of their relationship, setting clear boundaries is essential. Every relationship is unique so that the boundaries may vary depending on each partner’s comfort level and desires. The goal is to ensure both partners feel safe, respected, and emotionally secure. Without these established boundaries, the relationship risks falling into mistrust and emotional disconnect.
Communication Is Key
The question of whether it’s ever okay to seek sex outside of a relationship ultimately comes down to communication and consent. As I shared on SheKnows.com, open discussion about sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries is essential for maintaining trust and respect in a relationship. By talking openly and honestly, couples can explore their sexual needs together while strengthening their bond.
What’s your opinion on this topic? Share your thoughts and read the full article on SheKnows.com here.
