In this latest article from I talk about ways to rev up sexual desire in no time at all. One way is to bring back flirting as a foreplay for great sex. Here’s what I had to say:

“Compliments are the appetizers to good sex—and they don’t have to be on appearance. Just showing that you’ve appreciated something small is a powerful way to create a sexy environment,” says Shannon Chavez, PhD, a sex and relationships therapist. “Try using a new tone, too—a soft, sultry voice or a whisper in the ear. Finally, flirting is fun when it’s least expected. Surprise your partner with suggestive notes that you hide in his dresser, on the mirror, or in a coat pocket that he’ll find later that day.”

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